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I would also love to experience the erotic variety as well, just to learn what the effects were with regard to arousal. My fantasy would be to be spanked by my 7th grade elementary school teacher. I had turned 13, and just started having wet dreams.

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Looking for a girl with a spanking fetish my family as a child there were no clear rules chaos ruled. When I acted out to get attention, most often I was made to feel guilty and there was no consistency.

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I had heard them being spanked, and to be sure the sound was as scary as stimulating. On several accessions I was told to be careful or she would take my pants down and paddle my bottom.

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Very calmly she took my chin in her hand and turned my face toward her.

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Now I am terifief and reflexively try to stop her from pulling my pants down. I stood there trying to cover myself completely embarrassed and then she easily dragged me over her knee. John full-time and Robbie our son in university holidays.

Both gentle, respectful of women, perfectly "normal" sexually, I presumed. John had a low libido, didn't lech at other women and had not looked at porn mags since he was a teenager. I couldn't imagine for one minute it was him. I asked how on earth those sites could have got there.

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After tea, we talked. He was touchingly honest, with good eye contact. He had been looking at porn sites, bondage ones. It made him feel safe, he said, like when he was a boy and was tied up in cowboy and Indian games. He'd been doing it daily for the past three years, more or less. That was why our phone bills were so high. And I thought he'd just been checking for emails.

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What was he Looking for a girl with a spanking fetish a pervert? He seemed as horrified and bewildered as I was. Strangely, I felt turned on. We were both in our 50s, and our sex life had taken a big dip. Still warm companions, we walked together every morning and had no rows. But we did lead semi-detached lives, he wrapped up in his hobbies, me in mine.

The next few days and weeks were the cliched rollercoaster. Huge ups - cuddling, sharing like we've never done before, about sex, about everything. Huge downs - I felt like an "old bag" beside the nubile women I imagined he'd been looking at. How could I trust him again? The day after my discovery, I made decisions. Our relationship could only continue if he stopped Looking for a girl with a spanking fetish at porn and never did so again, and if he agreed to come with me to Totally discreet sex a sexual therapist.

Normally liberal, I was driven by a gut instinct of revulsion. I was not prepared to accept pornography as part of our sexual life, and that was that. Normally he Nasu women wanting to fuck have run a mile at the thought of a therapist, but that was my condition.

Because no matter how much he might promise not to do it again, as any addict does, if we didn't understand why, how could we make sure it didn't happen again?

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It was a weird time. Waking at 2am, talking intensely in the small hours, often ending up with intimacy and laughter.

Everything was up for grabs. Did he want bondage, I asked? Was he really homosexual, transvestite? Suddenly anything seemed possible. Three times I rang the Samaritans - not that I was suicidal, I was just desperate Woman looking casual sex Saint Charles Kentucky talk oLoking somebody.

Normally I share problems with friends, but this I could hardly admit to myself. The bell of cognitive dissonance clanged in my head - swinging between the man I thought I knew and a porn addict. Since "Discovery", he has behaved almost perfectly. Looking for a girl with a spanking fetish was honest and didn't justify himself. He wasn't cross at me for my reactions, just contrite.

And he lived up to his promise to get help. I found the British Association for Sexual and Relationship Therapy via Google, rang one therapist, liked her voice and her answers to my direct questions.

What was happening when John started looking at porn, she asked. His mother was dying and arguing with his father about the will.

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He said he could cope. A rock for everyone else. Our therapist said this is often the case. People who do not habitually look at Ladies seeking sex Camp Arkansas tend to start when they're going through a distressing time.

For comfort - a basic bodily distraction. Because of the sexual content, they get an endorphin high and they're hooked. Once the high wears off, the only way to get it back is to look again. What did John feel when he looked at it, she asked. Five days after that first consultation came the epiphany. In the middle of the night I had got up and searched the internet for help for women who discover their partners are porn addicts.

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